上礼拜刚刚表扬了易峰,今天礼拜一一大早他又有点别别扭扭的,给他换了臭臭的尿不湿之后,他怎么都不让我给他穿新尿片,就得爸爸来换,一到饭桌上,我们讲什么他都说NO,我只好对自己说耐心再耐心一点。今天又看到有个妈妈讲,饭桌上尽量不要讲“你吃啊”“再吃一口”之类的话,尽量和小孩多愉快的聊天,培养饭桌积极的气氛,这虽然和我们老祖宗饭间不语背道而驰,但以后绝不劝吃,聊天多有意思呀,只是不知道到了小孩子划拉几个米粒到肚子里面去。
早上Dave送易峰去学校,然后告诉我易峰在学校里哭了,起因是易峰去拿一个玩具,那个玩具只好在另外一个小朋友的面前,那个小朋友就不让拿,Dave就让易峰不要拿,口气也不重,但易峰一咧嘴委屈地哭了起来。我听了之后一天心里都很惦念易峰,大人有些时候心气不顺,还看什么都不顺心呢,这一天易峰可怎么熬呀,所以我就计划今天早点去接他。
5点钟刚到易峰的学校门口,就听见小孩大哭的声音,我暗想,该不是我们家易峰吧,想着就不由得加快了脚步。进了门,两个班的小孩子们正在跟音乐跳舞,每人手里都拿着彩带,老师也在里面跳,一个男孩正在地上打滚哭闹,我一看,是易峰他们班的淘气大王 ---我一直很担心易峰受他欺负,或跟他学很多坏毛病,这么点的小娃就要学会出污泥而不染,也够不容易的。眼睛转了一圈找到我们家易峰,他哪有时间哭呀,正跟那儿跳得欢呢,他看到我,高兴地跑过来,我一把把他抱起,重重地亲了一口。
要出门了,易峰的校长拿着一本书过了问我是不是家里有这本书,我看了看,说没有,校长就很激动地跟我说今天她给易峰班读书,一群小孩子中就易峰一个可以跟老师模仿读,而且读得字字句句都很好,我当时感觉只有两个字来形容,惊喜。
一天的担心却发现都是多余,我的宝贝已经初长成,易峰,妈妈今天因为你的快乐,很高兴。我一直不太在乎小孩子到底会数几个数,或会背什么唐诗,会,当然更好,不会,也无伤大雅。我希望易峰和天天要懂得独立,坚强,自信,博爱,这些性格的培养对我来说比什么都重要。
Today is Monday. I had been worried about Alex the whole day.
When he woke up playing with his astronaut, he was happy. However, for no reasons, he refused to be changed and started whining. Dave had to take it over to put new diaper on him. When we moved downstairs, he didn’t want to eat anything. Finally I tricked him to eat half dumpling, half egg, and some yogurt, but he threw up almost everything after being choked by a big bite. Then he knocked the cereal bowl to the carpet, I scolded him and he cried very badly. When Daddy dropped him at school, he cried again when Daddy told him not to take a block from Colin.
My thoughts was gone with Alex whole day imaging Alex cried and whined at school. It must be a long day for Alex. So I decided to pick him up earlier today.
When I arrived at school, I heard somebody was crying very loudly. It maybe Alex. I said to myself and speed up to Alex’s classroom. When I walked in, most kids were dancing with the song Head, Shoulder, Knees, and Toes. I saw my baby! He didn’t cry at all. He was dancing with color paper strips in his hands. Very happy. He so focused on the dancing that he didn’t see me coming in until other kids came to say hi. Then he saw me and rush to me and gave me a big hug. “Alex, did you have a good day today?” “Yeah-” Alex likes to say Yeah with an exaggerated high pitch tone. What a big relief! I returned him a big hug and big kiss.
Before we left the school, the school’s director walked to me with a book and asked me if Alex has that book at home. I looked at it and said no. She told me today she read that book to Alex’s class, and Alex is the only kid who can read after her. The director is very impressed by Alex’s language development. I was thrilled.
Now my princes are all sleeping soundly at their own rooms. I miss them already and cannot wait to hold them again.